I asked my exes mom if I should contact my ex.. I've been wondering if it would be wise to see where hes at in life..I don't know why I wanted to do that.. I shouldn't have but the answer was great..
"Pretty sure he would insist on a paternity test to before he would
even think about getting close to Ev at this point. He's starting to
get his life straight - good job, etc and I'd hate to see that get
derailed."
true story..
first off: he's the only one that could be her father. point blank. only one. There's no one else in the world it could be.
second off.. glad he has this great life and I'm glad that having his child in his life would ruin that.
see what I'm working with here??
Wow!! im sorry girl! that has to be tough! just focus on you and little miss Ev. Id try to stop dwelling on him. I know thats easier said than done because you have been hurt. but the best thing you can do for Ev is to be happy with the way things turned out, even if you didnt envision it that way. you still have her and thats whats important.... PS... Dont be jealous of me and my family. Every family has ups and downs. grass is always greener on the other side. Be happy in YOUR life and family unity! :) Love ya chic!
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