Whats wrong?

Can someone tell me what's so wrong with being committed to one person? Can someone explain to me why people think that's the complete end of the world? I don't see how, well unless you were with someone who was controlling and jealous. But if your allowed to be with your friends as much as you want, and you don't even have to talk to the person your with all day long and be with them all day everyday, how is that a big huge commitment? And why is it that some people view relationships as a marriage sentence? Isn't that the eventual goal of a relationship anyway? but its not like it exactly means that you have to. When your in a relationship all you have to do is make sure you don't have sex, kiss, or flirt with other people. The worst is that the person your dating is now included into your life. Whats so wrong with that? It's a simple label, not a sentence. It doesn't really mean much anyways. Except it makes it easier to explain what that person is to you. 

Also, why are so people scared of marriage? Yes, now that's a big deal but does that mean the end of a persons life? no, not really. If your with the right person. Why are people so scared to let someone love them? I'm scared too but not scared enough to run away from it. I just don't chase the opportunity. Its not like when you get married you have to give up your friends and social life. I personally would not want that taken away from me, so I wouldn't take that away. Your social life should just be enhanced in that case. I just don't understand whats so wrong with learning to love someone and letting yourself be loved? it sounds so stupid said that way but really.. is it that bad? I'm not really the relationship type and I don't care for lovey dovey bullshit. But maybe my idea of love is simpler then other peoples because Being in love to me doesn't require dropping hobbies or friends or really settling down, its just having someone to share that all with and someone to be there for you. 

I also hate when people think just because I'm a girl all I want is to get married and control you. NO. I'm not your mother and yes, eventually in my life I'd like to get married but not to you, and not right now. Seriously some men need to get off their high horse and stop thinking their so fucking special. I agreed to date you, but to take on the responsibility of taking care of you 24/7? uh fuck you, who said I wanted that? I just wanted to include someone in my life and be included in theirs. I never said I even wanted to fall in love with you, so why the fuck are you thinking I want to marry you? Maybe years, and years down the road. and that's a maybe not a "I want to" Cause I happen to not be so sure about you either. what the fuck are wrong with some men? seriously? I've never even mentioned the word "wedding" because I'm not even ready to move out of my parents house yet and you think I want to be married? I'm utterly confused at the way some people act. Men to me are children, god seriously? 

 

The point is, I don't see why some men make a big deal out of relationships/marriage. Yeah marriage is a big deal and not something to be rushed but men make it seem like thats all women want and getting into a relationship will be the end of them. really its only a big deal if you make it that way.

Sorry for the rant but this has been a thing I've noticed, not only from my own experience but other peoples to.