Tuesday, May 29, 2012

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I'm so sick of immature guys.. I'm so sick of them thinking that just because I'm a single mom, I'm desperate and lonely and that the first guy to give me a teensy weensy bit of attention I'm going to give my everything too.

Oh no.

Dating is going to be much more of a challenge than it ever was before. Obviously. You have to be very particular in who you date because in turn that person will be around your child. I heard a great saying once "Don't marry anyone you would be ashamed to have as a son" I don't have a son but still it applies to anyone. Basically saying that your child will mold after you and your spouse. You as parents are their examples.

I want to be the best example I can be for my daughter. Of course I want to find a good man but then again I want to show my daughter that you can be independent and work hard and still enjoy life. If I find someone I want to show her the example of what real love is. What a real relationship is. I want to be someone that if she grew up to be just like me I would be proud. At this point I wouldn't necessarily be proud but I wouldn't be ashamed.

I've just meant the wrong guys. They don't fit. Some want to much and some don't want enough. Some just want sex which is a big N-O for me right now and will be for a long, long while. Some just want me and disregard the fact that I have a daughter. For instance they never say a word about her, ask about her and they think me not hanging out because I'm with my daughter is an overused excuse.
If you date me.. you have to date my daughter too. She's apart of the equation, she is apart of what comes with ME. You get Me and her because it's her and I. and if that's something you can't handle.. then go.
I'm content single. Of course I want that cute little marriage and happy family but if I don't get it, then I don't and that's just how it is.

I'm just sick of guys being rude to me because I don't want to date or I don't want to sleep with them. I'm wrong because I'll go out with my friends and not them. Sorry? Am I not allowed to do what I want to do?

I'm just bugged!

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